How to listen to music !?

Music is not only a medium that let us forget about the world and unpleasant things around us. What can music give us and what do we need to do?
“You have to give yourself to the music as you give yourself to another human being.”
In video below Daniel Barenboim who work as conductor, pianist and chamber musician reveals his thoughts about how to listen to music. Certainly more then just great points for digest, but a prosperous material for prolonged contemplation.